What to write a girl online |
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To my view on line dating purpose is a primary contact with a girl to further relations in real life. Naturally meeting in person has certain advantages: • You can observe her figure, face, talk to her in reality and learn the way she is. • You can control the situation since you can see what she wants or think about and the way she treats you. • Finally a primary physical contact is possible (kiss on a chick or a handshake). • Plus it is a guarantee to avoid some kind of dodgy dates. Certainly it is better to meet people personally (and a girl will find you confident) however there are some advantages in meeting online. • If a girl is decent and do not club all the time then she will stay at home in front of her computer and let’s assume she is pretty; so the internet is this place to catch her! • You do not have to look your best while staying online. • Online you can get to know a person; the character, interests. Finally you can ask if she is involved. |
She might say she is just to show how popular and hot she is or to
test your confidence. The common answer to this question is something like “at the moment I’m not involved” or “he dumped me”.
Secrets of successful on line and real dating are the same!
Be original!
It’s any girl’s nightmare! Visit a girl’s chat under female nick and you will discover that all men are the same!
They all start asking stupid age questions and ask for a photo or phone number.
To impress a girl a men have to be original, smart, funny and attentive!
And do not as under any circumstances her email not to mention a photo!
I understand that there is a risk that you might not like the way she looks however you have to
learn to guess right while communicating with her. Sometimes pretty girls and top models end up being
the quickest to take offence, capricious and slow.
Minors are sometimes naïve, faint-hearted and stupid!
Joyful and funny girls almost always have beautiful eyes!
If a girl is asking what you do it means she is not a minor because she works as well or temporally unemployed
meaning she is over 21! If she asks which school you go it means she is under 21.
These are some tips to determine a girl’s portrait:
• Correct spelling.
• Do you really think she will jump on you if you write her “what butiful nick you has”??? Well, if she does then there is nothing to choose between both of youJ!!
• Show respect
If you had an argument with somebody then the other one would not deal with you. It is not recommended to address female interlocutor in a very informal way if you do not her
well enough to feel her frame of mind or guess her age. You risk getting a harsh response!
The conversation should be about general stuff. The girl should be able to relax while talking to you rather then load
you with her problems. You can ask now and then questions about things you want to know to keep the conversation interesting
for both of you; for example hobby, interests, the web sites you visit and so on.
Saying goodbye you can ask a girl you liked what is the best way to contact her so she will decide whether to give you het e-mail
or a phone number. I think patience is crucial here and men do not have it. We always rush and as result loose a lot.
Now let’s talk about meting on dating sites!
Well, you have searched for profiles (of cause with a photo of your city) and found some you have fallen in love with at once.
And here starts the decay! You write a girl a letter and then “copy paste” it to the rest of them! It is a nightmare!
If a letter can be addressed to more then one person then it is a bed letter!
Well, for example: “Hi, my name is Den. I’ve seen your profile on Ok Free Dating and was smitten with feelings I have never felt before! It must be love! Write me!”
What can you say? First of all it is short, I mean the letter!
Second the chances that you are the only one who wrote her are not big! What makes you different from others? What makes your
chances bigger then others? You have to ask yourself these questions to be able to succeed.
These are some tips for meeting on dating sites:
1. An interesting subject.
2. Minimum 10 sentences. Maximum depends on how many you are capable of writing but not 4MG otherwise you will scare the girl away.
3. The letter must be original. Start with beautiful beginning, explaining her everything so the poor girl does not end up clueless
of who you are after having read your letter. Complement her qualities in profile and mention them in your letter.
This is an example of your letter:
Subject: to the most beautiful girl on Ok Free Dating
The body of letter: Good day Marina! Sorry to disturb you. I have seen you profile on okfreedating.net and decided to write you.
If it was not you who wrote it and it is a joke then I’m sorry. I just liked the girl on the photo and even have taken
a risk to call you the most beautiful girl on this site. I like when a girl has blue eye as blue as a lake where one can get lost.
You must be getting compliments all the time and I do not sound original. Then I better tell a little about myself.
My name is Den and I’m IT specialist. I will be 27 soon. I am 190+ cm tall. On my free time I like listening to music, go dancing; I love dancing!
Sometimes it seems to me that we men do not understand you women! You can’t anticipate your wishes and be the way you want us to be.
I know how important attention and sympathy are for women; how important it is for them to be cared about and looked after just like
after a beautiful flower. Everyone is beautiful in his or her own way and waste away without attention and affection. Sorry I’ve got
carried awayJ. If you are interested in sharing your thoughts with me or in writing me I would be happy!
Have a good day!
I believe this letter will increase your chances more then others’ to receive an answer.
Finally some observations which were not included in the article but are worth of mentioning:
I believe everything must be beautiful in a beautiful men including nickname. Not something like Se9reod but for
example, your name, names of stars, gods, famous people and so on.
To learn how to meet on line and in real life you must love women, endeavor to understand then, respect their views
(I know it is hard but there is no choice) and tell them what they want to hear.
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