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I would like to begin with one story, which happened before my own eyes… A friend of mine, a middle-aged woman, a widow found herself in a remote village in a company, where she’d been sitting next to a young man for some time. At first glance, it was impossible that he would even become a friend of her, because he didn’t meet any criteria. She was a representative of a large company with demands of certain level in every aspect of life, and he was in terms of in terms of means. All of a sudden our heroine spent a lot of time speaking with this young man quite willingly. In spite of this house being very ordinary and unpretentious, without any special comfort (by the way, there was no electricity for a while because of power failure), she stubbornly refused to go back to the city from this district center. |
When we finally started on our journey back home to the blessings of civilization, I noticed that she felt like a fish out of water:
some forces woke up and disturbed her. Don’t think that she gave this young man any cause or behaved inadequately.
But such behavior was just not typical for a friend of mine. She didn’t take this young man as a possible partner
in her mind, but her nature clearly recognized some psychological correspondence on the subconsciousness level.
Real work of agents of dating services can be better seen not in number of marriages, contracted with their help, but in the final
result, those “chickens”, which you “count when they are hatched”.
There is nothing more pleasant than such signboards next to an entrance to an office: “There is not a single divorced family among
those happily created under this roof” or “If we go through with marriage, we don’t allow any wastage!” Loss of services quality
means scandals, unfaithfulness and divorce. One way or another, it’s true, because employees of marriage agencies undertake to
“decide the fate”, “acquaint with a significant other”, help to make “a happy family” in the face of God and people.
Honestly speaking, there is no more beautiful and nobler task! Even to build a church is not such a merit like to unite hearts
of people, who belong together.
But, from the other hand, if a mistake is done and destiny of many generations is broken, a crime will be committed, and it will
be the most grievous crime, because everything will be passed on from one generation to another, from parents to children.
Marriage between people who do not belong each other, dooms them to, mildly speaking, troubles for years and maybe even for life.
If a marriage agency’s policy is creation of a data base of long-legged blond owners of outstanding busts and also well-to-do beauties or
simply very rich women, who like to wear men’s clothes, then creation of new happy families is out of the question! Participation in such
scandalous practices is fraught with more serious consequences than migraine and aspirin.
Finding coincidence between people, who want to marry, is a problem of willingness and unwillingness. There are a lot of means: knowledge
of psychologists, abilities of bioenergetics specialists, mysteries of numerology and astrology, which can be unraveled by those who want it.
It is possible because it is necessary! You just need to start working on principle of medicine “First, do no harm”, and you will find
specialists and professionals.
But, from the other hand, you should be reasonable and take coolly so called “cheap tricks”. You should forget about spectacular effects,
meant for widely opened mouth and big eyes.
Every man has a pair in a complicated mosaic of roads and fates. This is fairness and meaning of our life. Choice should be free and should
be made independently, but no one forbids helping with it. But in this case you will have to share responsibility for mistake. It is like
echo in mountains: you will hear the same thing you shout. Though, sound comes back to you faster than consequences of your deeds.
Love is a true reference point. That is why “shining eyes” not always mean that someone loves you. He or she rather likes something, for example,
juicy aromatic barbecue on a skewer or a tender sweet dessert. But after dishes have been eaten, desire fades away. Love is a quite another case.
I love, I don’t love, I love again – it is not a true love. A real and strong feeling lasts long and doesn’t depend on appetite, mood and weather. |
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