Ideal marriage – Is it real? |
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Beautiful dress, automobiles with balloons and ribbons, well-dressed guests… Wedding! Our imagination draws so wonderful pictures of future on this day! And so many things will not come true. It is very sad, and colorless existence cast quite dispirited thoughts. But we arm ourselves with patience and wait for several years. Everything ends with a divorce, partition of property and disputes about children. And feeling of resentment will stay with you for life, and many people even stop believing in a good and healthy marriage! And divorce is not the worst scenario! Many people live together and stand each other for life. It is horrible, isn’t it? But how should do so that a marriage would bring joy? Let’s think together about our possible mistakes. The most widespread mistake is to marry a man, who is very fad from your conception of an ideal man. None of his virtues (for example, financial soundness) will bring him nearer to the image you’ve dreamt about. Another common delusion is that you will reform your husband’s character like you want after the wedding. If your girlfriend likes to flirt with your friends, you should not hope for this liking to disappear after the wedding. Stamp and a ring on her finger will change nothing. Dear ladies, you also shouldn’t think that your husband will stop watching football and drinking beer with his friends after the wedding! But, on the other hand, you liked this man with all his habits before! |
Marriage of convenience is not a passport to success, too. You will have to stand the presence of an unwanted
man next to you. And even if you submit to it, what would you do if you met a man of your dream? There will be
a lot of problems. It is good if you have enough courage to divorce at once. And what if you don’t? Then all
that remains is secret dates and a lot of regrets.
But why are we speaking only about sad things? There is always a way out!
You should marry a man, whom you love, really love. Your love should be so strong that even his shortcomings
don’t annoy you. You will be amazed how radically everything changes in this case! So many things are pushed
to the background. It is so wonderful to hurry home not because you have to, but because you want to see a man,
who loves and awaits you! And you love him, too. So, dear readers, everything is quite easy. Love is the only
thing that should make you create a family. Then you will have a good chance of being happy. Love is the most
important thing in our life. Love and be loved! |
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